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In the end… 

In the end life is a journey, a journey to become the best we can be. We mess up, we don’t mess up, we live life to the full, we hide way in the shadows.

But where does our journey end? Does it end when we die? Does it end when we full fill everything we need to do, by this we keep getting reincarnated to achieve this. Do we start of as small  bugs, at the bottom of the food chain and work our way up to become humans? Is their life after life on earth? Is Earth actually the place to learn from our mistakes before we go to another planet or universe.

Do we get reincarnated until we get it right before we move to another planet in another universe?

I don’t think anybody would truly know what happens when we die. Nobody as of yet has found life on other planets of our solar system. Mars has been proven that it once had water on. Were we really ment to live on Mars and our past lives destroyed the planet so much we had to move here to Earth? Are we really ment to have 25 hours a day and stay away from the sun. That is one of the theories I have read, it could be logical as Mars has a 25 hour day and is away from the sun.

I think I have lived before, I am very drawn to history especially Victoriana era and I love space.

What will happen to our planet if we keep destroying it?

There are so many questions I am asking, I will have to start researching this a bit more.

I personally think it’s fascinating that there could be so much more to our journey, the world and space that we are yet to discover the new ideas and views we could come across.

Do you believe in reincarnation, other lives?

Photos used from NASA free images section.

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How to get the best of having your own time….

When  you become a parent Wether your a mum or dad. It really is important to have time together or even separate. 

Being a full time mum or dad (let’s face it ladies there are a few fantastic daddies who are stay at home dad’s!) We need our down time! 

Since Bear was born in was very much trying to get him into a 7pm-7am night time routine. It did work for a while. But then he got to the terrible sleeping phase but more on that in the future. 

Anyway to create some me time or more importantly how to get some “Me” time.

Here are my top tips for getting some me time.

1- let a relative have them over night… (my cousin is  gem, she has Bear every few months now, for a night so we just have Bell) 

2- Go to a keep fit class, yep this is one time I actually get where I am not having knocks on the bathroom door asking how long I will be as Bear or Bell wants me and not Daddy…

3- Find a good book and lock yourself in the bathroom with some candles and a glass of wine or if you don’t drink some orange juice. 

4- Take up a hobby. I am really into Knitting, but more on that later. 

5- Meet friends for a Meal or go to the cinema. Come on who doesn’t want to sit child free in the cinema and not share your sweets and popcorn?

I only really have 5 chill outs for me time what are yours? 

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Creating a space without …..

 

I feel sad that Bear and Bell have to share a bedroom, I would so love them to have their own personal space where they can chill-out and have their own me time. Living in a flat is so hard at time’s, especially day’s when I know Bear want’s his own space and his own time now his getting bigger.

It is also hard to think about making a lovely bedroom for a boy and girl which won’t look odd, which they won’t grow out of and especially they both will like. I choose originally half pink and half blue bedroom which was nice but Bell and Bear drew on the walls! Hubby was in charge! Now they have  white lining painted wall’s, beautiful Bunting and some of their stunning art work! It work’s really well.

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When Bear was born I was very adamant that he wouldn’t have clothes, bedroom or bedding with character’s on such as Pepper Pig or Thomas the tank engine. I feel quite proud that he hardly had anything like that. Please do not get me wrong he had a few bit’s of Thomas the Tank clothing but that was about it. Same with Bell, she has a few Pepper Pig bits of clothing and Shoes but nothing over the top.

Please also do not get me wrong the Nightie and Pajamas draw is full of character’s such as Elsa from Frozen, Pepper pig, Spider-man and Toy story.

I don’t know why I don’t really like character clothing on children. It does look cute, but for me personally growing up their wasn’t a wide range of clothing like that, so I never had that type of clothing.

If Bell and Bear ask for something with Pepper Pig or Spider man I certainly will not say no, as it is their personal choice and I fully encourage their development of personal choice and independence.

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